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Dormant Users Aren’t Dead: Lessons in Reactivation from Sara Joy, Lifecycle Marketer at Milk & Honey

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Last updated on
April 17, 2025

Over 70% of users who go dormant will never return—unless re-engaged. But brands that invest in reactivation can win back up to 35% of these users, often at a fraction of the cost of acquiring new ones. At Propel, we analyze billions of events each month to uncover drop-off moments and winback strategies that work.

As part of our “Staying Alive: Dormant Users Aren’t Dead” webinar series, we sat down with lifecycle marketing expert Sara Joy, currently leading digital and retention efforts at Milk & Honey (formerly at Tiff’s Treats). In this conversation with Propel's co-founder Jas, Sara shared a goldmine of tactics, challenges, and mindset shifts for effective user reactivation.

Watch the full video here:

👤 Meet the Expert: Sara Joy

Sara heads up digital and lifecycle marketing at Milk & Honey, a luxury spa and skincare brand. With 10+ years of experience across companies like Tiff’s Treats, Make-A-Wish, and Disney, she’s a retention-first marketer who deeply understands both brand voice and behavioral data.

🧠 Why Users Go Dormant

Sara breaks down dormancy into five broad causes:

  1. Seasonal or external changes
  2. Poor user experience
  3. Lack of value or incentives
  4. Lack of relevance/personalization
  5. Email fatigue or channel saturation

While each brand will experience these differently, personalization and thoughtful frequency are universal tools to tackle disengagement.

🎯 How to Personalize with Precision

Instead of relying on surface-level cohorts, Sara uses deep segmentation strategies such as:

  • RFM (Recency, Frequency, Monetary)
  • Engagement-based segmentation
  • Behavioral and geographic data
  • Customer lifetime value (CLV)

One standout example from Milk & Honey: users who visit for one-off gift appointments don’t respond well to generic discount offers. Instead, Sara sends them “spa-at-home” inspiration with product recommendations—bridging the gap with relevance, not desperation.

“It’s not just about saying ‘we miss you.’ It’s about showing we understand you.”

💌 Solving for Email Fatigue

When asked about frequency, Sara emphasized that one-size-fits-all doesn’t work. Some users want daily touchpoints, while others prefer a monthly nudge. The key is to:

  • Let users define preferences
  • Use dynamic content
  • Leverage multiple channels (SMS, push, direct mail)

Sara also highlighted the importance of intentional retargeting, with thoughtful sequencing and value propositions that evolve based on behavior.

📈 Redefining Success Metrics

While most teams obsess over conversions and revenue, Sara encourages a broader view. Her go-to KPIs for reactivation:

  • Click-through rates (CTR): Is the content engaging?
  • Unsubscribe/opt-out rates: Was the messaging relevant?
  • Customer retention post-reactivation: Did they stay?
  • Time to conversion: Did it take one touch or five?
  • Lifetime value of reactivated users: Are they more valuable long term?

🔄 Cross-Functional Alignment

Lifecycle marketers often juggle competing priorities from product, leadership, and creative teams. Sara’s advice?

  • Use data as the common language
  • Run incrementality tests
  • Create visibility around impact and ROI

⚙️ Timeline to Execution: How Fast is Too Fast?

Sara’s teams at Milk & Honey have turned around reactivation campaigns in as little as 24 hours—or as long as a month. The pace depends on urgency and org maturity. But her bias is clear: scrappy beats slow.

🧴 Cookies vs. Skincare: Context is Everything

Reactivation differs drastically across brands. At Tiff’s Treats (a fun, frequent-purchase cookie brand), email was king. At Milk & Honey (a premium, high-AOV spa brand), direct mail plays a larger role in reviving high-value dormant users.

The playbook changes with:

  • Brand tone
  • Customer lifecycle
  • Perceived value
  • Channel cost

🤖 What Role Does AI Play?

Sara is bullish on AI—but only when paired with human creativity. She uses AI for:

  • Predictive analytics
  • Content inspiration
  • Workflow automation

“AI alone won’t make magic. You need that human layer to create meaningful experiences.”

🔐 Privacy is a Creative Constraint

AI + GDPR can be tricky. But instead of seeing privacy regulations as a hurdle, Sara views them as creative opportunities:

  • Don’t overstep with creepy personalization
  • Respect opt-outs
  • Use data with empathy

💡 Golden Nuggets from a Decade in Retention

Sara’s biggest insight?

“Approach everything with curiosity. Best practices are starting points, not rules.”

She shares a story of a friend in B2B construction whose plain-text emails wildly outperformed flashy templates. Moral of the story: test everything, assume nothing.

🧽 Be a Sponge, Not a Sledgehammer

Feedback—especially angry feedback—is a gift. Sara recounts how customers who had poor experiences were turned into loyalists simply through empathetic messaging and proactive service recovery.

Final Takeaways

If you’re trying to re-engage dormant users, here are 5 things to remember:

  1. Segment like your life depends on it
  2. Balance automation with human touch
  3. Track success beyond revenue
  4. Move fast—but with purpose
  5. Be curious, be humble, test everything

Author
Rushabh Menon | Propel
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